How to attract and keep a man? Stimulate his mind and senses in a way that would make him like you
There are no hard and fast rules about dating. All it takes is a little knowledge to land the man of your dreams – here are seven tips on how to attract any man and hold him the way he wants to be held:
Get beautiful…and we don’t mean a full body cosmetic reconstruction.
Guys use their eyes before anything else. They are visually stimulated before they can be attracted. Unfortunately, many women think that because men are like that, they (women) need to be perfect in the eyes of men. Beauty has to do with the image itself.
How do you see yourself? If you think you’re downright ugly, people will too. But if you know you’re beautiful and you’re proud of your features, it won’t be long before people start complimenting you on them. Attract a guy by looking healthy and keep him looking after you.
Bringing tears to her eyes…from laughing so hard.
Humor tells a man that you are like a child and that you easily like simple things. You take life positively. And when you laugh, people just want to laugh with you because it’s so contagious and makes everyone feel good about themselves. Attract a guy by making him laugh and keep him going by always introducing humor into your relationship, no matter what mood he’s in.
Guys love young girls… young at heart, we mean.
We are not talking about a case of pedophilia, obviously. Free-spirited girls, who don’t care much about the world’s problems or their own, attract more guys due to their playful and positive nature.
Guys can smell a woman who is full of drama because of what life has given her. They don’t want this drama, and that’s why guys stay away from these women. However, a woman who looks a lot like a girl on the playground is adorable and carefree, and her positive attitude is contagious. Draw him in with warmth and freshness, and keep him always feeling like you’re 18 instead of 35.
Be street smart…it’s sexy.
So you know your books and you were an outstanding student all your life. In addition, you also know the ins and outs of life, and you are not easily influenced because you stand firm and seek what you want, without settling for less. This is what attracts men: confidence and an intelligent outlook on life. Attract him by being receptive and resourceful, and keep him by using your smart brain to be creative.
Let your body do the talking… that’s why it’s called body language.
Stay in a position that tells a man that you’re interested in listening to him. Leaning forward works every time. However, that arch in your lower back tells her that you’re also alert and confident. Facial expressions are also crucial. If you want to drive a man away, all you have to do is give him a cold look and pursed lips. Attract a man with a warm smile and keep him from ever crossing his arms over his chest no matter how angry you are. (Shows defiance, denial, and rejection.)
Express emotions… but know how to do it well.
Emotions, whether good or bad, should be expressed positively. A woman is emotional by nature, so she can rip the book of intense drama out of her every time she feels a big wave of emotion. Unfortunately, this wave drowns a man and leaves him suffocated. Express emotions without projecting an image of weakness. Do your best to be objective and allow open discussion for everything. Attract a man with positive emotions and keep him by keeping him.
I want it… but I don’t need it.
Confused? A guy can smell a girl who has a tendency to become overly dependent and he will immediately back away. A guy needs to feel loved. That’s where overconfident “I don’t need a man” girls go wrong. But, a guy can’t stand being needed all the time either. It’s like going out with a girl to take care of her. Attract a guy with your independence and keep him feeling wanted.