If you’re reading this article, I’m going to assume you’re a first-timer and have never taken scissors, a razor, an electric shaver, or anything else to the fuzz growing between your legs. You may be in a state of complete chaos and wonder how things got out of hand… but the important thing is that you’ve taken the first step and decided to shave.

Before you begin, you may want to take some time to consider the various hair styles and designs you can select from when it comes to taking the waxing plunge. There is so much to cover, we have made a whole separate article about it. In the past, it was common to simply trim or wax the bikini area, go with a basic runway pattern, or just shave it completely. But in the 21st century, people are taking a much more creative approach to pubic hair care; shave or wax intricate patterns in the hair and even dye it.

You should gather everything you need in the bathroom (generally the best place to do this task) so you don’t have to stop in the middle of the process to go get something. I will focus on shaving with a personal (non-electric) razor and shaving cream for the majority of this article. I personally use the Gillette Venus Vibrance and find it leaves a very smooth shave. If you want to save a few bucks on razor blades, you don’t need to buy their special Vibrance blades because they’re no different than the original Venus ones other than the color, but don’t tell Gillette I told you that!

Now is the time to get down to business. One of the first things you’ll want to do is trim your pubic hair with clean scissors or an electric razor. (If you’ve shaved before and your pubic hair isn’t very long, you can skip this first step and start with the main event.) infection risks. When you shave, little nicks are likely to develop (some of them so small you won’t even see them) and whether you’re using shears that you were using to prune flowers in your garden or an electric razor that you used on your dog, your chances of a bacterial infection will certainly be elevated.

“Crop” means what it looks like. The goal is not to remove all of the pubic hair in this step, but rather to thin out the shafts so that you can get an effective shave with your razor later on. Otherwise, you’ll end up cleaning your razor many, many times to keep the blade exposed and you may end up snagging hairs, which is never nice. You may want to do the clipping over the toilet bowl or in the shower, but you will certainly want to collect the hair you trim in some way. If you plan on waxing instead of shaving, your pubic hair should be about a quarter of an inch long, but no less than an eighth of an inch.

If you haven’t already, why not check your hair situation now in the mirror and see how things are going? After a trim, he may have reached a length of pubic hair that he is comfortable with. It’s your hair and if you’re not ready to go completely nude yet, there’s no pressure. But if you’re ready to move on, so am I.

Now is the time to get wet and lather up. I prefer to shave in the shower after washing my hair because it gives my skin a bit of time to warm up and allows the steam from the hot shower to soften it. You can also shower first, but you should shave last when you’re ready to drain the water. I also usually put one leg on the edge of the tub or on a stool or on the shower step for better access to everything.

Coat your pubic hair with shaving oil, jelly, or foam to form a layer of lubrication between your skin and the razor. I like to use shaving oil and jelly because I can feel the razor glide smoothly over my skin, leaving no cuts or nicks. If you are desperate, you can also use hair conditioner, but for best results, I would only use it in a real emergency.

You may also want to consider the type of shaving material you use and what skin types it is recommended for. My favorite products are Venereous Shaving Oil and Venereous Shaving Jelly by Newf Brand. You can use them together, layering the gelatin over the oil, or you can use each one separately. Using them together just gives you an extra layer of protection from scratches and leaves your skin more moisturized. Also, none of these products lather, so you can actually see what you’re shaving, which is very helpful.

Some gels contain mint and other ingredients that may not be suitable for sensitive skin in the nether regions. I have not had any adverse reactions using the men’s shave gel compared to the women’s, but I usually choose a product for sensitive skin. Some women’s shave gels indicate on the label that they are recommended for use in the bikini area and generally have a more feminine scent.

I usually cover the entire area I’m going to shave at first so I don’t have to constantly put the razor down and fiddle with the shaving gel container. You can always go back and add more shaving oil later, but be careful with some gels and creams because if you leave them on too long you may start to notice a burning sensation on your skin. If that happens, wash off the foam immediately and give your skin a few minutes to recover. If you have another shaving foam you may want to use that for the rest of the process and I would recommend against using the shaving foam that will burn you again in the future for this sensitive area.

Now you are ready to put the sheet on your skin. Do not be afraid. If you’ve shaved your legs before, you know it can take a bit of time before you feel completely comfortable with all the contours of your body. Shaving your mound is no different and everyone varies, so these steps may not work perfectly for you, or a different order may be a bit better. I’m just talking about my personal shaving experience over the past 8 years.

Starting at the top of your mound, use one hand to gently pull back the skin taut, and with the razor in your other hand, shave down with the hair growth. I like to start at the sides near the crease of the legs and then work towards the center. After shaving most of my mound against the hair growth, I shave against the growth and sometimes from side to side.

In some areas of the body, such as the armpits, hair grows in multiple directions and to get a very close shave, you must shave in each direction of growth to get each hair at its base. But at first, this can increase your chances of getting burned at the end, so make sure you have plenty of foam covering your mound while you’re doing this. Run your fingers over your mound and if it’s smooth, you’re ready to go.

The lips can be a bit more complicated, although the outer lips should be similar to shaving the mound. Shaving against the hair growth generally removes most of the hairs, although you may need to retrace the stroke once or twice to catch any strays. However, try not to go over your skin too many times, as this could also cause irritation later on. If you feel the need to shave with the hair growth, be careful because you may end up cutting yourself, which is quite uncomfortable.

To shave the inside of your lips, use your free hand to gently part your lips and carefully pull the razor along the edge of your lip and around the upper ridge for those little hairs that will really rock your partner during oral sex if they are omitted.

At this stage, it is more or less finished. You may want to reach back and give her anus a quick peek just to be thorough. This is where a second pair of hands would come in handy. In fact, you may want someone to help you through this entire process, but try not to get too carried away or you may end up with a lot more cuts than you expected.

Once you get out of the shower or tub, you may want to use a moisturizer like Venereous Mountain Mist to help prevent irritated skin and razor burn. Try to avoid excessive touching of the area for a few hours, as that can also cause skin irritation.

If you decide you love the feel of your smooth-shaven mound, maintaining this style is simple. You’ll probably only want to shave every few days at first until your skin gets used to this new constant attention. If you decide to start shaving every day from the beginning, your skin may be more sensitive and irritated for the first few days that you continue this process. But as you adjust, any discomfort and elevated levels of irritation usually subside.

Although shaving can be a bit tricky and takes some getting used to, most women love the results, and so do their partners! If you’re doing this just for someone else, don’t forget to let them know you’ve gotten yourself into some trouble and I’d really appreciate it if they’d do their best to clear the woods too (if they haven’t already). !