It’s hard enough for one to go through a breakup. It is a completely different matter to try to win back a lady. It is well known that ladies are more complicated than men and that is why they have been known to carry grudges with them even for years. Unlike men, they find it quite difficult to forgive and forget, although they will, at least most of them, a man must be careful when he has wronged a lady and wants to win her back.

Whenever there is a breakup, you should first try to find out the root cause of the breakup before trying to reconcile with it. Once you know the reasons, it will be easy to deal with the problem and work to recover it.

It is important that you act on the reasons why the two of you broke up. Never go out and get it back if you haven’t even worked on the problems. If you were the main reason the relationship ended, it will be important to let her know that you are working on her issues and that you fully intend to be better for her.

In an effort to recover it, one must be continuous in their efforts. A faint heart never won the prize, for this reason you have to learn ways to make yourself irresistible to her, this along with a persistent attitude will finally get your lie into your arms.

Now will be the time to start healing after working on the issues that led to the breakup. If the relationship broke up due to trust issues, then it will be important to act on the trust issues first. Restoring trust in a once broken relationship is quite a difficult task, and you will have to use all your efforts and techniques to win their trust and love. Although men have been known to pride themselves on not coming down and apologizing for the mistakes they’ve made, it’s paramount that you apologize to your ex if she was your fault before you even think she can get back with you.

More often than not, you will find that after you win the lady of your life back, you take it for granted that you can always win her over at another time. Well, as the saying goes, what happened once may or may never happen again, but what happens twice will always happen repeatedly. So if after kneeling down to get her back you keep doing the same things she doesn’t like, then you’re playing with fire. Making up with a girl a second time is almost impossible, unless there are other factors at play besides love, trust, and respect. Following these tips will surely get the lady back from her, and your love from her will flourish again.