In this article you will learn 3 tips to sexually escalate on the dance floor and on a first date. Seducing a woman becomes much easier.

Sexual escalation is one of the most important techniques to seduce a woman. If you don’t do this, you will be in the friend zone. So pay attention!

Have you ever been intimate with a woman without touching her?

No, I didn’t think so either. You must touch her to arouse sexual attraction. We call the art of winning her through touch: Sexual Escalation.

So what is a sexual escalation in women?

It means that little by little you take the conversation to something more intimate.

For example, from a chat with a woman in a club to a kiss.

Or from a first date to your bedroom.

It ensures that you really seduce a woman. And don’t end up in that infamous friend zone.

What is the purpose of sexual escalation?

• Let him know that you like it;

• Who knows that if she stays with you longer, she will be tempted;

• Let her feel comfortable with your keys;

• Let him be excited

Imagine that you are on a date with a woman…

Do not touch her. You don’t show that you like it.

So from scratch… BOEM… now you try to kiss her.

That woman then thinks: “Where does this come from?”

You don’t show that you like her, but suddenly you try to kiss her? It’s an awkward situation.

Nobody wants that.

How does sexual escalation work?

As you can see above, there are 4 sexual escalation targets. They are all meant to seduce a woman and get her into bed.

You can sexually escalate in two ways:

1. Verbal (verbal escalation);

2. Physics (Physical climbing).

I’ll give you examples later, but first I want to tell you something about the speed with which you work to seduce her.

How quickly do you want to escalate sexually for the optimal effect?

Why are you hitting like that at that speed? Well, many men get great compliments on this. They try to go from shaking hands to finger touching in 2 minutes. Or even worse, they take 3 years to show their intentions.

Good luck with that, but if you want to sleep with her, there are better ways.

Look, it’s like you want to cook a frog in a pot of water.

You can do 2 things:

1. You can boil the water first, and then put the frog in it, after which it immediately jumps out;

2. Or you can put the frog in the cold water and warm it up slowly, so the frog stays calm until it’s too late.

You want to seduce a woman in the same way, of course without the boiling water.

verbal escalation

Verbal escalation is seducing a woman with words. Your goals here:

Let him know that you like it;

Let her know that if she stays with you longer, she will be seduced.

You do this by letting him know you like him… simple, right?

It is often quite difficult.

Many men take it “easy” on the first date, never to go on a second date. It is important that you are not too nice to women. If women hate something, it’s men who treat them like princesses.

So dare to take risks. You don’t seduce a woman by being sweet.

Examples of verbal escalation at the beginning of the interaction:

We have date:

“You have put on a beautiful dress… and especially for me”

If you’re late for an appointment and she says something about it:

“Really?! Are you going to complain that I’m 15 minutes late, while I’ve been waiting for you all my life?!”

If she apologizes for something:

“It doesn’t matter… I would still do that to you…”

Important: All phrases must be said with a small smile on the face. So it’s half funny / half serious.

This ensures that she doesn’t know exactly how to interpret it. For example, she half thinks that you are making fun of her (something that no other man dares). On the other hand, she thinks that you mean it, so she knows that you like her and that you are going to seduce her.

physical scaling

Physical escalation is sexual escalation with touch.

This is even more important than verbal for the following reason:

Touching is naming and a scientifically proven way to seduce women.

How do you seduce a woman with physical climbing?

Again it is important that you do not throw the frog into a saucepan of boiling water…

Build it quietly. Make sure you are calm and don’t appear tense. Body language is important for that.

Important about physical climbing is that you pay attention to the different areas of the female body.

There are roughly 2 to distinguish:

1. Friendly zones

These are places where normal people can touch her. Think about your shoulder or arm.

2. Intimate areas

These are places where you would only touch someone if you feel attracted to that person. Think of his lower back, neck or stroking his hand.

Important: Don’t be gross

Pay attention! If a woman doesn’t want you to touch her somewhere, cut her off immediately. If she goes ahead and forces something, it’s first and foremost against her will. Second, now she is afraid of you because you are going too fast.

The correct way to deal with this is to immediately remove your hand and stop what you are doing if it makes you uncomfortable. In the meantime, he keeps talking and try again in 5 minutes.

Examples of physical climbing at the beginning

– Give it a high five.

– Handshake. Be sure to turn your hand slightly palm up so that she can give the typical female hand.

– Touch the inside of your elbow and pull it towards you.

– Push it against his shoulder.

Examples of physical climbing in intimate places

Now that you’ve touched her with some friendly touches, we move on to some intimate places.

Since it’s different in different situations, I’ll give you an example for a first date and on the dance floor.

Example: Seducing a woman on the dance floor

Grab their hands. He now has both hands and can move up and down with his hands.

Now that you’re standing with her hands, you can dance some more with her. Sometimes turn it around, pull it against you.

Now you can kiss her.

Clearly? Beautiful.

So we continue now…

Example: Seducing a woman on the first date

The situation is slightly different on the first date. No flickering lights, screaming girlfriends, and no sweet white wine (at least not yet).

Let’s go. What you should know about seducing a woman on the first date is that you shouldn’t be too careful about the physical escalation.

She shows up for the date, so she already likes you. She already finds you attractive. If she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t be sitting across from you.

1. Start over with a superficial touch. A box or high five is the easiest;

2. Point to your hands and say, “I really love those cute little hands,” now hold them together and compare them;

3. Lower your hands again and continue speaking. Now you can gently and silently stroke one of her hands;

4. Go smoothly from your hand to your elbow, shoulder, neck;

5. Massage his neck a little. If she’s comfortable with this, she kisses her.