The need for male milking is one of the big questions about male chastity and orgasm denial, that is, is it necessary or desirable to drain the prostate by means other than full orgasm to maintain male health?

Male milking: the myth

The myth of male milking is that it should be done once a month or else.

And if you read practically any blog or forum, this is the advice you will see.

But the fact of the matter is, there isn’t any convincing medical evidence I could find to suggest that a man’s prostate should be milked, let alone once a month.

The available research that I have been able to find is by no means convincing: some studies show a benefit from regular emptying of the prostate; some show the opposite.

It seems that this myth has been promulgated simply because it is what “everyone knows”, so it is continually repeated and reinforced.

That said, prostate milking doesn’t hurt, May It has some health benefits and is both pleasurable and frustrating for the man (which makes it worth doing!).

So here are three ways to do it.

Male external milking

You can do this by having your man on all fours and putting him in a very aroused state, and then gently stroking and massaging his well-lubricated perineum with your fingers.

This is the soft spot between your anus and the backmost part of your scrotum.

You don’t need a lot of pressure here for this and you can be sure that your man will be moaning, groaning, and begging to be released.

He will almost certainly start rejecting you because he wants to feel more pressure and increase the pleasure he feels. If this is something you want to deprive him of (as I do with my husband), every time I push you back, stop stimulating him until he relaxes. You do not have to say anything, but it must be consistent with your actions. You are training him effectively, it is NOT something you are doing for his enjoyment or pleasure.

When he arrives, he feels (to him) a bit like urinating.

It effectively empties your prostate but does not give you the pleasure of an orgasm.

This is the method that I mainly use to milk my own husband, every two months.

Male internal milking

For male internal milking, massage the prostate through the walls of the rectum, using your finger or a dedicated massage device such as the Aneros.

This clearly means that you have to glue something there!

As with any type of anal play, a lot of lube is an absolute has to And the rule is always to go slow and be gentle.

Some women prefer to milk their men in this way because of the additional humiliation it causes to the poor. It is even possible to milk him this way with a harness, so even plus humiliated.

As with external prostate milking, this does not give your man the pleasure of orgasm, but leaves him feeling frustrated.

Ruined orgasm

And finally, if you can’t bother with milking (it all takes time and effort), then a ruined orgasm is an effective way to empty your prostate.

All you need to do is get him to the point where his orgasm has really started, and then STOP all stimulation.

He will hate it, believe me, because it is so frustrating for him.

You may want to insure your hands before doing this, because if you don’t then it will be played to ‘top off’, I guarantee it.

It’s so frustrating that you won’t be able to NOT do it.